Helpful Resources
SAFE International, SAFE Chapters, SAFE and or SAFE-NH various Yahoo Groups
S.A.F.E. (Stop Abuse For Everyone)
Stop Abuse For Everyone...our name is our mission!
This is the Illinois Chapter of Stop Abuse For Everyone: Peace4All is a non-profit 501(c)3 organization located in Crystal Lake, Illinois. We help people involved in domestic violence, including the victims, children, and the aggressors. Hotline: 1-815-455- SAFE (7233)
This is a private Yahoo Group for pre-screened SAFE-NH Volunteers. Click here for more info. or if you are one of our Volunteers.
Get together with SAFE Advocates,Volunteers and anyone else interested in SAFE-NH. Go to this site ,sign up and receive monthly invitations to get together with others who want to assist victims of Domestic Violence or who just need some support through a difficult time dealing with issues surrounding violence and abuse.
Please join SAFE-NH's Yahoo Group to be a part of the "new movement" to acknowledge that Domestic Violence and other related issues are human issues and not gender specific! The time is right to approach an ongoing problem from new perspectives!
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NH Commission on the Status of Men
The mission of the New Hampshire Commission on the Status of Men: To examine issues and effects of cultural biases and stereotyping, beginning with childhood experiences and progress in public schools, extending to include a study of male suicide and adult concerns such as family relations. To promote education and policies which bring fathers and children closer together, with an emphasis on the importance of the role of the father in child development. To study health problems unique to men or which predominantly affect men,and make appropriate recommendations. To promote initiatives, programs and incentives that will enable men to continue their education and develop family and career skills to improve their ability to be productive and responsible citizens. The Commission was established by the New Hampshire legislature in 2002, as described in RSA 19-I.
NH Bar Legal info. on Domestic Violence
This is good information for victims of Domestic Violence who have questions about restraining orders and their rights to protection from their abuser. The Crisis Centers on this list do not currently include SAFE-NH because the Coalition Against Domestic Violence has chosen not to acknowledge our services,or allow us to be a "member agency". This is not because we do not meet qualifying criteria but simply because they feel that their member agencies do an adequate job helping men and other "underserved" populations of victims and therefore have deemed us "unecessary". They do not want to "share funding" with SAFE-NH...and that is the reality. The 381 callers from our 1st year (2003)and the 1199 contacts during 2004,have a much different view on the lack of equal services for "certain victims". In spite of not being part of the listed agencies,we feel that the information contained in this link is important for ALL victims of Domestic Violence. Please keep in mind that even though we may not be able to access a DOVE attorney for your case because the DOVE program is generally only available to victims who are referred by Coalition member agencies..., we will do our best to try and obtain services. WE CAN also access legal services through NH Legal Assistance a program that does not discriminate against the victims who seek assistance and support from us here at SAFE-NH. Please see the link for NH Legal Assistance or call us at SAFE-NH for help in acquiring an Attorney for your situation.We will keep an open dialogue with the NH Bar and the DOVE Program to facillitate legal services to the best of our ability.
If you need legal assistance,can't afford one and meet income guidelines check out NH Legal Assistance. In spite of certain areas of this site making reference to women being the victims of domestic violence NHLA does help male victims as well. Also,the statements on this site that say "in order to acquire an attorney through the Domestic Violence Advocacy Project you must be referred by a Women's Crisis Service" ...this is no longer true as NHLA does accept referrals from us here at SAFE-NH...and we assist ALL victims of Domestic Violence.
NH COLAGE Seacoast is the new NH Seacoast chapter of the organization COLAGE (Children Of Gays And Lesbians Everywhere). Our mission is to provide children of GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered) Families opportunities to get to know one another in fun social activities.
Domestic Abuse,Intimate Partner Abuse Links:
What is the ifeminist position on domestic violence? Violence, except as used in a defensive capacity, is abhorrent, especially within the bounds of family or other intimate relationships. Ifeminists oppose the use of non- defensive violence by any person regardless of gender. They recognize that the conventional wisdom- that men are the perpetrators while women are the victims- is based on politics rather than on fact.
A collaborative effort regarding Domestic Violence. Great articles,insight,information and online support on the message board.
Domestic violence is a problem that affects both men and women. But our nation's laws are based on a false assumption – that only women are victims of abuse. As a result, male victims are often refused service, and men's civil rights are violated. R.A.D.A.R. – Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting – is a network of concerned men and women working to assure that the problem of domestic violence is treated in a balanced and effective manner.
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Women Against Domestic Violence, INC.
WADV is a group of women from across the world who have joined together in the fight against domestic violence. They are not a feminist group or an anti- men group. WADV believes that domestic violence is a human problem not based on gender. WADV was formed to provide resources and support to those victims and survivors of DV that have internet access. They provide resources for all aspects of survival after an abusive relationship as well as an online support group. WADV is dedicated to stopping domestic violence through support and communication. They are all surivors and will not stop until changes are made. *Note* When they say that they are not a feminist group they are stating that they are here for all those who are victims of abuse not just women.
Resources for Heterosexual Men
Resources for Battered Men
Men's and Father's Issues Radio Show
Sponsored by The National Men's Resource Center. Resource and information site. They promote conflict resolution,self-esteem building and cooperation between the genders.They represent positive changes for men while providing necessary resources and information.
News, information and resources for men and those who care about them.
Domestic Violence Against Men
We are working hard to educate all persons that family violence and abuse are non-gender issues and to elevate the cries of men to the same level of women and children.
Resources for Heterosexual Women
What is the ifeminist position on domestic violence? Violence, except as used in a defensive capacity, is abhorrent, especially within the bounds of family or other intimate relationships. Ifeminists oppose the use of non-defensive violence by any person regardless of gender. They recognize that the conventional wisdom- that men are the perpetrators while women are the victims- is based on politics rather than on fact.
The Independent Women's Forum is dedicated to advancing the spirit of enterprise and self-reliance among women, and supporting the principles of political freedom, economic liberty, and personal responsibility. What does IWF do? IWF provides a voice for responsible, mainstream women who embrace common sense over divisive ideology. They make that voice heard in the U.S. Supreme Court, among other decision makers in Washington, and across America's airwaves as they: Counter the dangerous influence of radical feminism in the courts Combat corrosive feminist ideology on campus Change the terms of the debate on quality of life issues affecting American women Through programs, such as their legal, campus, and work/family projects, the IWF will continue to: Educate women on the benefits of the free market and the danger of big government Challenge conventional feminist myths with accurate information and lively debate Provide a forum for women who are not represented by radical feminist groups.
Resources for Teen Issues: Dating Abuse, Bullying, Stalking, Sexual Assault and Sibling Violence
Take Care ...A Guide to Safe Relationships
A guide for Teens but with information important for anyone interested in healthy and safe relationships.
A great resource especially for teens but also for anyone who needs to know the signs of dating & relationship violence and abuse. This is presented in a way that is not gender biased.
NH COLAGE Seacoast is the new NH Seacoast chapter of the organization COLAGE (Children Of Gays And Lesbians Everywhere). Our mission is to provide children of GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered) Families opportunities to get to know one another in fun social activities.
Child Abuse, Bullying and Sibling Violence
A great site regarding issues of Children's Rights.
The Upper Room,A Family Resource Center
Strengthening individuals and families through community connections,service programs and education. Located in Derry, NH
Very useful site regarding interpersonal communication and related information. Offers tips on developing skills regarding many aspects of relationships.
Sponsored by The National Men's Resource Center. Resource and information site. They promote conflict resolution,self-esteem building and cooperation between the genders.They represent positive changes for men while providing necessary resources and information.